We are taught to celebrate wins loudly.
Promotions. Billable hours. Closed cases. Fully booked calendars. Staying strong. Pushing through. Not quitting.
On paper, it all looks impressive.
But here’s a truth I’ve come to learn through clinical work, conversations with professionals in law, and my own lived experience:
not every win is healthy, and not…
Reflective tools for tuning in to your own needs and emotions
Self-connection is the foundation of every healthy relationship. It’s not about being self-absorbed—it’s about understanding your own inner world. When you notice your thoughts, feelings, and needs—not the ones imposed by others, but the ones that are truly yours—you relate to the world with…
In 1623, William Shakespeare wrote:
All the world’s a stage, and all the men and women merely players; they have their exits and their entrances, and one man in his time plays many parts, his acts being seven ages.
From the screaming infant to the finality of oblivion, Shakespeare poetically captured the journey of life…
“When fear is in the room, consent is not.” – Laura Richards, Criminal Behavioural Analyst
In the aftermath of multiple lawsuits and harrowing testimonies, one story stands out like a flashing red warning light: that of Rodney “Diddy” Combs’ former employee, Ms. Clark.
Her disturbing account offers us a rare and brutal glimpse into…
By Muthoni Njagi Magistrate | Psychologist | Child Advocate
As someone who has worked in the Kenyan Judiciary for the last 13 years, I've presided over many cases that involved children — children who had experienced unspeakable trauma, abuse, and violations of their innocence.
My heart broke repeatedly sitting in courtrooms listening to child survivors…
There’s something no one tells you when you step into a high-pressure career: That sometimes, it’s not the deadlines or decisions that break you.
It’s the silence. It’s the expectations. It’s the loneliness behind the role.
I know this all too well because I’ve lived it.
I’ve worn the professional face while quietly drowning…
"Half of the troubles of this life can be traced to saying yes too quickly and not saying no soon enough." — Josh Billings
How many times have you said yes when you truly wanted to say no? How often have you overcommitted, stretched yourself too thin, or agreed to something just to avoid guilt…
As we step into a new year, it's time to take stock of the relationships we keep. Some people drain your energy, shake your confidence, and keep you stuck—without you even realizing it. Inspired by a post from Molly Burford, let’s talk about the types of people you need to let go of in 2025…
In Arabic, the word Hakim means "wise one," a title that speaks of knowledge, discernment, and authority. But then there is Hakimu—a term that translates to "afflicted with justice." An oxymoron, perhaps? Or a deeper truth about the weight that justice places on those called to administer it?
I remember fondly my time as a…
Introduction
Stress is an inevitable part of the professional world. Deadlines, demanding clients, high workloads, and workplace politics create an environment where emotions can run high. While some professionals handle stress with grace, others experience emotional outbursts, workplace conflicts, and burnout.
Have you ever found yourself snapping at a colleague over a minor mistake? Feeling…
woman in pink long sleeve shirt sitting beside white and pink alarm clock
Have you ever found yourself saying, “I’ll start when the time is right”? Maybe you’ve delayed launching that business, pursuing a degree, or making a life-changing decision because you’re waiting for the perfect moment. Spoiler alert: That moment rarely comes.
The fastest way…
A couple embracing
A friend recently sent me an Instagram reel featuring a guy acting out the famous Valentine’s song:
“Valentine’s is coming… where is your boyfriend?” 🎶
If you’ve spent any time online in February, you’ve probably heard this playful (but sometimes triggering) tune making the rounds. And let’s be real—Valentine’s season brings up a…
