A question I see a lot in these social media streets: "How do you know if a person values you?" My response? You wouldn’t even be questioning it.
When someone truly values you, their actions, words, and consistency make it evident. But here’s the tricky part—value can be warped depending on personal experiences, upbringing, and…
Emotional maturity is the ability to manage emotions in a balanced, constructive way—responding rather than reacting, learning rather than blaming, and growing rather than staying stuck. It influences how we handle relationships, setbacks, and personal growth.
Psychologist Daniel Goleman, known for his work on emotional intelligence, emphasizes that emotional maturity is not about suppressing emotions…
In Arabic, the word Hakim means "wise one," a title that speaks of knowledge, discernment, and authority. But then there is Hakimu—a term that translates to "afflicted with justice." An oxymoron, perhaps? Or a deeper truth about the weight that justice places on those called to administer it?
I remember fondly my time as a…
Mental health awareness is at an all-time high, and as a mental health enthusiast, I couldn’t be happier. For years, I’ve been shouting about mental well-being from the rooftops, encouraging people to seek help and normalize mental health conversations.
But lately, I’ve noticed some concerning trends in how we talk about and engage with mental…
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Stress is an inevitable part of the professional world. Deadlines, demanding clients, high workloads, and workplace politics create an environment where emotions can run high. While some professionals handle stress with grace, others experience emotional outbursts, workplace conflicts, and burnout.
Have you ever found yourself snapping at a colleague over a minor mistake? Feeling…
Yesterday, I attended the most beautiful wedding—a true testament that love is not a scam. 💕 Watching two people deeply in love, surrounded by warmth, joy, and celebration, truly warmed my heart.
As Valentine’s Day came and went, I know this season stirs up a whirlwind of emotions, especially for those who feel left out.…
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Before expecting effort, respect, or reciprocity from others, it’s crucial to ask yourself: Are you meeting your own standards first? The expectations we set for ourselves shape our self-worth, relationships, and overall success.
In psychology, this concept ties to self-concept theory, which suggests that how we perceive ourselves determines…
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This week, I had an unexpected but refreshing encounter. While on my morning walk, I met an advocate who used to practice before me when I worked in Milimani Law Courts. We exchanged pleasantries and, as lawyers do, quickly delved into a discussion about the state of legal practice…
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Have you ever found yourself saying, “I’ll start when the time is right”? Maybe you’ve delayed launching that business, pursuing a degree, or making a life-changing decision because you’re waiting for the perfect moment. Spoiler alert: That moment rarely comes.
The fastest way…
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A friend recently sent me an Instagram reel featuring a guy acting out the famous Valentine’s song:
“Valentine’s is coming… where is your boyfriend?” 🎶
If you’ve spent any time online in February, you’ve probably heard this playful (but sometimes triggering) tune making the rounds. And let’s be real—Valentine’s season brings up a…
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"If you keep carrying old bricks, you will build the same house."
Read that again.
How many times have you found yourself in the same unhealthy relationships, stuck in an unfulfilling job, or repeating self-sabotaging behaviors? It’s not because you want to—it’s because your…
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As parents, we all want our children to succeed, thrive, and navigate life with confidence. But in our quest to give them the best, we may inadvertently stifle their growth. Doing too much for our children—solving their problems, shielding them from struggles, or micromanaging their lives—can unintentionally…
