The other day, I was speaking with my sister after a particularly intense therapy session and found myself saying something I hadn’t quite put into words before:
“It’s like I’m meeting myself afresh.”
And I meant it. Even though I’ve sat in many therapy rooms before — both as a client and now as a…
In my role within the Kenyan Judiciary—a truly multigenerational workplace spanning Baby Boomers, Gen X, Millennials (like myself), and now Gen Z—I’ve seen firsthand how mental health is perceived and experienced differently across age groups. From seasoned officers who often push through silently due to the norms of their time to younger colleagues who openly…
By Muthoni Njagi, Therapist & Mental Health Advocate May – Mental Health Awareness Month
Have you ever thought about going to therapy but never followed through? Maybe you even went for a session or two, then stopped. Life got busy. Or maybe—if you're honest—it felt too uncomfortable, unfamiliar, or even unnecessary.
Yet if your…
As we mark Mental Health Awareness Month, let’s talk about the mental health struggles faced by professionals in high-pressure careers like law and therapy. Behind the titles and responsibilities, they are human too.
Introduction
May is Mental Health Awareness Month, a time to reflect on our emotional and psychological well-being—and to spark important conversations.…
“My therapist heart gets so happy…”
I often say this because it’s true. Watching people become more emotionally aware, learning to recognize red flags, and setting healthier boundaries is beautiful progress. For many—especially those healing from trauma, heartbreak, or toxic relationships—recognizing red flags becomes a necessary survival skill.
But here’s the caveat:
“Hypervigilance is not…
By Muthoni Njagi | Health Hour Therapy
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“She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future.” — Proverbs 31:25
Have you ever stopped to…
By Muthoni Njagi Therapist • Magistrate • Woman Over 40
If you've been navigating the dating scene recently, you've probably heard the phrase: "The dating pool needs a permanent lifeguard."
At first, it sounds like a funny internet joke — but after reviewing recent statistics and speaking with clients and peers, I believe there's real…
Let me start by saying this: I’ve been team block and delete for the longest. Yes, the block game has been on fleek, and let’s be honest — sometimes, hitting that block button is self-care. There’s something oddly satisfying about protecting your peace with just a few taps.
But lately, I’ve been learning something deeper:…
There’s something no one tells you when you step into a high-pressure career: That sometimes, it’s not the deadlines or decisions that break you.
It’s the silence. It’s the expectations. It’s the loneliness behind the role.
I know this all too well because I’ve lived it.
I’ve worn the professional face while quietly drowning…
Brown wooden gavel on brown wooden table
Introduction
After a brief hiatus due to life's demands, I'm returning to share insights on a significant legal development in Kenya. The Supreme Court recently dismissed an appeal by Ruth Kamande, affirming her life sentence for the 2015 murder of her boyfriend, Farid Mohammed Halim. Kamande sought to introduce…
"Half of the troubles of this life can be traced to saying yes too quickly and not saying no soon enough." — Josh Billings
How many times have you said yes when you truly wanted to say no? How often have you overcommitted, stretched yourself too thin, or agreed to something just to avoid guilt…
As we step into a new year, it's time to take stock of the relationships we keep. Some people drain your energy, shake your confidence, and keep you stuck—without you even realizing it. Inspired by a post from Molly Burford, let’s talk about the types of people you need to let go of in 2025…
