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Love Is Not an Afterthought: Why Intentional Relationships Matter More Than You Think

Blog, Mental Health2 days ago11Views 0Likes 0Comments

This morning, as I sat at my desk wondering what I wanted to write about for this week’s blog, one word kept finding its way back to me: Love. It was in my morning devotion. It showed up in a simple conversation with my daughters on the drive to school. And then, like divine punctuation,…

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Trapped at Work: Coercive Control, Trauma Bonds, and the Diddy Case We Can’t Ignore

Blog, Mental HealthJune 11, 202533Views 0Likes 0Comments

“When fear is in the room, consent is not.” – Laura Richards, Criminal Behavioural Analyst In the aftermath of multiple lawsuits and harrowing testimonies, one story stands out like a flashing red warning light: that of Rodney “Diddy” Combs’ former employee, Ms. Clark. Her disturbing account offers us a rare and brutal glimpse into…

Children and Mental Health: What Every Adult Needs to Know

Blog, Mental HealthJune 2, 202554Views 0Likes 0Comments

By Muthoni Njagi Magistrate | Psychologist | Child Advocate As someone who has worked in the Kenyan Judiciary for the last 13 years, I've presided over many cases that involved children — children who had experienced unspeakable trauma, abuse, and violations of their innocence. My heart broke repeatedly sitting in courtrooms listening to child survivors…

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Meeting My Younger Self: A Reflection on the Diddy Trial and the Vulnerability of Young Women

Blog, Mental HealthMay 21, 202578Views 0Likes 0Comments

Description: Exploring the psychological dynamics of coercive control and trauma bonds in the context of the Diddy trial, with insights from experts Laura Richards and Dr. Nadine Macaluso. The recent revelations from the Sean "Diddy" Combs trial have been both shocking and deeply unsettling. Cassie Ventura, who met Combs at the tender age of 19,…

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Meeting Myself Afresh: A Personal Journey into Attachment Styles

Blog, Mental HealthMay 20, 202555Views 0Likes 0Comments

The other day, I was speaking with my sister after a particularly intense therapy session and found myself saying something I hadn’t quite put into words before: “It’s like I’m meeting myself afresh.” And I meant it. Even though I’ve sat in many therapy rooms before — both as a client and now as a…

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Bridging the Generational Divide: Supporting Mental Health in a Multigenerational Judiciary

Blog, Mental HealthMay 10, 202556Views 0Likes 0Comments

In my role within the Kenyan Judiciary—a truly multigenerational workplace spanning Baby Boomers, Gen X, Millennials (like myself), and now Gen Z—I’ve seen firsthand how mental health is perceived and experienced differently across age groups. From seasoned officers who often push through silently due to the norms of their time to younger colleagues who openly…

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Why Don’t People Seek Mental Health Support?

Blog, Mental HealthMay 3, 202556Views 0Likes 0Comments

By Muthoni Njagi, Therapist & Mental Health Advocate May – Mental Health Awareness Month Have you ever thought about going to therapy but never followed through? Maybe you even went for a session or two, then stopped. Life got busy. Or maybe—if you're honest—it felt too uncomfortable, unfamiliar, or even unnecessary. Yet if your…

May is Mental Health Awareness Month: Prioritizing the Mental Health of High-Pressure Professionals

Blog, Mental Health, TherapyMay 2, 202568Views 0Likes 0Comments

As we mark Mental Health Awareness Month, let’s talk about the mental health struggles faced by professionals in high-pressure careers like law and therapy. Behind the titles and responsibilities, they are human too. Introduction May is Mental Health Awareness Month, a time to reflect on our emotional and psychological well-being—and to spark important conversations.…

🌿From Red Flags to Green Flags: Healing, Awareness & Building Better Relationships

Blog, Mental HealthApril 29, 2025136Views 0Likes 0Comments

“My therapist heart gets so happy…” I often say this because it’s true. Watching people become more emotionally aware, learning to recognize red flags, and setting healthier boundaries is beautiful progress. For many—especially those healing from trauma, heartbreak, or toxic relationships—recognizing red flags becomes a necessary survival skill. But here’s the caveat: “Hypervigilance is not…

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Who Shaped Your Concept of Femininity? A Psychologist’s Take on Womanhood, Work, and Healing

Blog, Mental HealthApril 24, 202576Views 0Likes 0Comments

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The Dating Pool Needs a Permanent Lifeguard: A Therapist’s Take on Modern Love

Blog, Mental HealthApril 23, 202575Views 0Likes 0Comments

By Muthoni Njagi Therapist • Magistrate • Woman Over 40 If you've been navigating the dating scene recently, you've probably heard the phrase: "The dating pool needs a permanent lifeguard." At first, it sounds like a funny internet joke — but after reviewing recent statistics and speaking with clients and peers, I believe there's real…

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Accepting People for Who They Are: Why I No Longer Cancel Everyone Who Disappoints Me

Blog, Mental HealthApril 22, 2025121Views 1Like 1Comment

Let me start by saying this: I’ve been team block and delete for the longest. Yes, the block game has been on fleek, and let’s be honest — sometimes, hitting that block button is self-care. There’s something oddly satisfying about protecting your peace with just a few taps. But lately, I’ve been learning something deeper:…