Sonnie, Author at Health Hour Therapy

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Accepting People for Who They Are: Why I No Longer Cancel Everyone Who Disappoints Me

Blog, Mental HealthApril 22, 2025376Views 1Like 1Comment

Let me start by saying this: I’ve been team block and delete for the longest. Yes, the block game has been on fleek, and let’s be honest — sometimes, hitting that block button is self-care. There’s something oddly satisfying about protecting your peace with just a few taps. But lately, I’ve been learning something deeper:…

Why I’m Passionate About Normalizing Mental Health Support in High-Pressure Careers

Blog, Mental HealthApril 16, 2025361Views 0Likes 0Comments

There’s something no one tells you when you step into a high-pressure career: That sometimes, it’s not the deadlines or decisions that break you. It’s the silence. It’s the expectations. It’s the loneliness behind the role. I know this all too well because I’ve lived it. I’ve worn the professional face while quietly drowning…

“Ruth Kamande Decision: When Battered Woman Syndrome Doesn’t Apply”

Blog, Mental HealthApril 14, 2025331Views 0Likes 0Comments

Brown wooden gavel on brown wooden table Introduction After a brief hiatus due to life's demands, I'm returning to share insights on a significant legal development in Kenya. The Supreme Court recently dismissed an appeal by Ruth Kamande, affirming her life sentence for the 2015 murder of her boyfriend, Farid Mohammed Halim. Kamande sought to introduce…

The Power of Saying No: Reclaiming Your Time, Energy, and Peace

Blog, Mental HealthMarch 31, 2025283Views 0Likes 0Comments

"Half of the troubles of this life can be traced to saying yes too quickly and not saying no soon enough." — Josh Billings How many times have you said yes when you truly wanted to say no? How often have you overcommitted, stretched yourself too thin, or agreed to something just to avoid guilt…

People You Need to Let Go of in 2025 for Your Peace and Growth

Blog, Mental HealthMarch 25, 2025375Views 0Likes 0Comments

As we step into a new year, it's time to take stock of the relationships we keep. Some people drain your energy, shake your confidence, and keep you stuck—without you even realizing it. Inspired by a post from Molly Burford, let’s talk about the types of people you need to let go of in 2025…

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How Do You Know If Someone Values You? A Psychological Perspective

Blog, Mental Health, TherapyMarch 6, 2025483Views 0Likes 0Comments

A question I see a lot in these social media streets: "How do you know if a person values you?" My response? You wouldn’t even be questioning it. When someone truly values you, their actions, words, and consistency make it evident. But here’s the tricky part—value can be warped depending on personal experiences, upbringing, and…

Emotional Maturity: What It Is & How to Cultivate It in Yourself and Others

Blog, Mental Health, TherapyMarch 5, 2025706Views 0Likes 0Comments

Emotional maturity is the ability to manage emotions in a balanced, constructive way—responding rather than reacting, learning rather than blaming, and growing rather than staying stuck. It influences how we handle relationships, setbacks, and personal growth. Psychologist Daniel Goleman, known for his work on emotional intelligence, emphasizes that emotional maturity is not about suppressing emotions…

Afflicted with Justice: The Sacred Burden of a Magistrate

Blog, Mental HealthMarch 3, 2025350Views 0Likes 0Comments

In Arabic, the word Hakim means "wise one," a title that speaks of knowledge, discernment, and authority. But then there is Hakimu—a term that translates to "afflicted with justice." An oxymoron, perhaps? Or a deeper truth about the weight that justice places on those called to administer it? I remember fondly my time as a…

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The Dark Side of Mental Health Awareness: 5 Toxic Trends We Need to Talk About

Blog, Mental HealthFebruary 24, 2025400Views 0Likes 0Comments

Mental health awareness is at an all-time high, and as a mental health enthusiast, I couldn’t be happier. For years, I’ve been shouting about mental well-being from the rooftops, encouraging people to seek help and normalize mental health conversations. But lately, I’ve noticed some concerning trends in how we talk about and engage with mental…

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Stress & Emotional Outbursts at Work: Are You Managing or Just Coping?

Blog, Mental HealthFebruary 17, 2025361Views 0Likes 0Comments

Introduction Stress is an inevitable part of the professional world. Deadlines, demanding clients, high workloads, and workplace politics create an environment where emotions can run high. While some professionals handle stress with grace, others experience emotional outbursts, workplace conflicts, and burnout. Have you ever found yourself snapping at a colleague over a minor mistake? Feeling…

Love Is Not a Scam: Reflections from a Wedding and the Psychology of Love

BlogFebruary 15, 2025348Views 0Likes 0Comments

Yesterday, I attended the most beautiful wedding—a true testament that love is not a scam. 💕 Watching two people deeply in love, surrounded by warmth, joy, and celebration, truly warmed my heart. As Valentine’s Day came and went, I know this season stirs up a whirlwind of emotions, especially for those who feel left out.…

Bare Minimum Standards: Setting the Foundation for Self-Worth and Growth

BlogFebruary 13, 2025337Views 0Likes 0Comments

three gold bars against dark background Introduction Before expecting effort, respect, or reciprocity from others, it’s crucial to ask yourself: Are you meeting your own standards first? The expectations we set for ourselves shape our self-worth, relationships, and overall success. In psychology, this concept ties to self-concept theory, which suggests that how we perceive ourselves determines…

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Accepting People for Who They Are: Why I No Longer Cancel Everyone Who Disappoints Me

Why I’m Passionate About Normalizing Mental Health Support in High-Pressure Careers

“Ruth Kamande Decision: When Battered Woman Syndrome Doesn’t Apply”

The Power of Saying No: Reclaiming Your Time, Energy, and Peace

People You Need to Let Go of in 2025 for Your Peace and Growth

How Do You Know If Someone Values You? A Psychological Perspective

Emotional Maturity: What It Is & How to Cultivate It in Yourself and Others

Afflicted with Justice: The Sacred Burden of a Magistrate

The Dark Side of Mental Health Awareness: 5 Toxic Trends We Need to Talk About

Stress & Emotional Outbursts at Work: Are You Managing or Just Coping?

Love Is Not a Scam: Reflections from a Wedding and the Psychology of Love

Bare Minimum Standards: Setting the Foundation for Self-Worth and Growth

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