By Muthoni Njagi Magistrate | Psychologist | Child Advocate
As someone who has worked in the Kenyan Judiciary for the last 13 years, I've presided over many cases that involved children — children who had experienced unspeakable trauma, abuse, and violations of their innocence.
My heart broke repeatedly sitting in courtrooms listening to child survivors…
By: Muthoni Njagi, HealthHourTherapy
Mother’s Day has come and gone, leaving behind a swirl of flowers, heartfelt captions, voice notes, brunches… and for many, a heavy silence.
As I scrolled through social media this past weekend, one post jumped out at me: "Not every mother should be celebrated."
It was raw, honest, and at first…
By Muthoni Njagi, Therapist & Mental Health Advocate May – Mental Health Awareness Month
Have you ever thought about going to therapy but never followed through? Maybe you even went for a session or two, then stopped. Life got busy. Or maybe—if you're honest—it felt too uncomfortable, unfamiliar, or even unnecessary.
Yet if your…
“My therapist heart gets so happy…”
I often say this because it’s true. Watching people become more emotionally aware, learning to recognize red flags, and setting healthier boundaries is beautiful progress. For many—especially those healing from trauma, heartbreak, or toxic relationships—recognizing red flags becomes a necessary survival skill.
But here’s the caveat:
“Hypervigilance is not…
Let me start by saying this: I’ve been team block and delete for the longest. Yes, the block game has been on fleek, and let’s be honest — sometimes, hitting that block button is self-care. There’s something oddly satisfying about protecting your peace with just a few taps.
But lately, I’ve been learning something deeper:…
Emotional maturity is the ability to manage emotions in a balanced, constructive way—responding rather than reacting, learning rather than blaming, and growing rather than staying stuck. It influences how we handle relationships, setbacks, and personal growth.
Psychologist Daniel Goleman, known for his work on emotional intelligence, emphasizes that emotional maturity is not about suppressing emotions…
Mental health awareness is at an all-time high, and as a mental health enthusiast, I couldn’t be happier. For years, I’ve been shouting about mental well-being from the rooftops, encouraging people to seek help and normalize mental health conversations.
But lately, I’ve noticed some concerning trends in how we talk about and engage with mental…
woman in pink long sleeve shirt sitting beside white and pink alarm clock
Have you ever found yourself saying, “I’ll start when the time is right”? Maybe you’ve delayed launching that business, pursuing a degree, or making a life-changing decision because you’re waiting for the perfect moment. Spoiler alert: That moment rarely comes.
The fastest way…
A couple embracing
A friend recently sent me an Instagram reel featuring a guy acting out the famous Valentine’s song:
“Valentine’s is coming… where is your boyfriend?” 🎶
If you’ve spent any time online in February, you’ve probably heard this playful (but sometimes triggering) tune making the rounds. And let’s be real—Valentine’s season brings up a…
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As we step into 2025, the field of psychology is poised for significant change, driven by technological advancements, evolving societal needs, and growing advocacy for mental health. From artificial intelligence to diversity, inclusion, and cross-border collaboration, the trends shaping the profession this year demand our attention and adaptation.…
Suicide is not a crime; it’s a cry for help. And with this ruling, Kenya is one step closer to answering that cry with empathy and action.
The first Monday of the year is traditionally a busy time for Children’s Courts, with countless cases involving custody, maintenance, and child welfare. These matters often carry deep emotional and legal complexities, impacting not just parents but, most importantly, the children involved.
