A Kenyan woman’s personal journey from relaxers to micro locs; exploring Black hair as identity, hair trauma, workplace pressure, and how to teach daughters to love their hair.
Growing up in Nairobi, my hair was thick, long and bushy. It was a living thing that needed time, patience and a village. Wash days were a…
By Muthoni Njagi | Kenyan Mind & Justice Digest | HealthHourTherapy | November 2025 Edition
November is here, which happens to be my favourite month of the year. Perhaps it’s because it’s my birthday month, or maybe because it always brings with it a quiet kind of reflection. This time, I’ve found myself thinking deeply…
Photo by David Alberto Carmona Coto
When we think about trauma, what usually comes to mind? For many, it’s vivid flashbacks, haunting nightmares, or symptoms of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). Yet trauma wears many faces. It can show up in the body as chronic tension, fatigue, or insomnia; in the mind as anxiety, irritability,…
Today is a public holiday in Kenya and I’m prioritizing rest. Is that laziness? I think not.
In fact, ever since Friday last week was declared a public holiday in honour of the late Hon. Raila Odinga, I’ve chosen to slow down intentionally. After a busy few months, I finally gave myself permission to do…
Have you ever caught yourself thinking that mental health issues only happen to “certain people” those far away, on the news, or in another world entirely?
I once did.
For a long time, I believed that people struggling with depression, anxiety, or other mental health challenges were somehow different from me or those around me.…
A few days ago, I came across a video online where a woman offered career advice. One of her points stuck with me:
“Stay in your lane, work hard, and focus on your craft.”
I’ve heard this phrase since childhood. But that day, it bugged me more than ever because I realized that “stay in…
Law teaches rules, but psychology explains people. Discover how learning psychology helps lawyers improve empathy, resilience, and legal outcomes.
Keywords: psychology in law, human behavior in legal practice, law and psychology, emotional intelligence in law, mental health in the legal profession.
Introduction: The Missing Piece in Legal Training
When I first joined law school, I…
Reflective tools for tuning in to your own needs and emotions
Self-connection is the foundation of every healthy relationship. It’s not about being self-absorbed—it’s about understanding your own inner world. When you notice your thoughts, feelings, and needs—not the ones imposed by others, but the ones that are truly yours—you relate to the world with…
Exploring the paradox of modern loneliness and what it really means to be seen
It’s August 2025, and when the month began, I shared on my LinkedIn page that I’d be focusing on the theme of connection. And now, as we turn the page into a new month, I find myself reflecting more deeply than…
By Muthoni Njagi Kenyan Mind and Justice Digest | Magistrate | Therapist | July 28, 2025
Judges are human.
Yes, we wear robes. Yes, we carry the enormous responsibility of interpreting and applying the law. But beneath the bench is a person — often overwhelmed, frequently indoors, always thinking, and silently grappling with life’s…
Today, July 25th, marks an extraordinary milestone in the world of justice and mental health: Judicial Wellbeing Day. Officially recognized by the United Nations, this day is dedicated to acknowledging and supporting the psychological and emotional well-being of judicial officers across the globe. Here in Kenya, the Chief Justice has directed that all courts take…
By Muthoni Njagi | Kenyan Mind and Justice Digest | Judicial Officer | Counselling Psychologist
There’s something I’ve been meaning to say, and I’ll say it gently—but directly:
The way you were raised will not work for the world your child is growing up in.
Today’s parenting landscape is almost unrecognizable compared to a generation…
